AThornquist
Puritan Board Doctor
I am in a situation with my unsaved older brother and his girlfriend where they "would appreciate it" if I didn't let my mother know several things about how they celebrated my brother's 24th birthday. It's shameful to even mention some of what I found out today. I have been earnestly seeking to share the full gospel with my brother and his girlfriend - though they both know bits and pieces of it - and realized that I could use this to my advantage in terms of setting up an opportunity. My brother kind of shirks away from the discussion of Christ.
I want to say, "Well, I won't bring it up to mom if you and [your girlfriend] truly listen to me for 5 to 10 minutes. Then you can ask any questions you want. After that, I am willing to put behind me all that I found out." I know that only the Lord can save, and He does so through His Gospel. Thus, I want to put them in a situation where they can't run and have to hear the plain words of truth.
Is that sinful? I think that's technically blackmail although it's certainly less vile than other examples of that activity.
I want to say, "Well, I won't bring it up to mom if you and [your girlfriend] truly listen to me for 5 to 10 minutes. Then you can ask any questions you want. After that, I am willing to put behind me all that I found out." I know that only the Lord can save, and He does so through His Gospel. Thus, I want to put them in a situation where they can't run and have to hear the plain words of truth.
Is that sinful? I think that's technically blackmail although it's certainly less vile than other examples of that activity.