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Some of them.Pergy, are we assuming that an illness is providentially hindering the person from performing his ministerial duties?
Brother,Some of them.
I am writing and managing the funding of teachers/nurses/evangelists, and advising from afar. But I am just not recovering. I have invites for me to go and preach many places, but I cannot even get out of bed some days until 2pm. I am finishing a book and writing and several of my churches advise me that resting and writing are my main focuses now. My liver, spleen, and gallbladder are all still swollen, I have high rates of mercury in my blood, am peeing out protein, and my thyroid no longer works, and I have insomnia due to chronic severe pain.Brother,
I had to ask. Alan gave a very wise response. If a minister is having serious or debilitating physical/health problems, they should be addressed. If they can be treated while continuing in regular ministerial duties, that is fine. If an accommodation can be made to shift some duties to other laborers, either temporarily or permanently, that may be a possible remedy. If that is not possible and the physical/health problems are causing ministry and family life to suffer, I am of the opinion that the physical/health problems should be given priority. If the minister is a missionary can they request a sabbatical allowing them time to receive treatment and recover? I know that may be very difficult for a missionary in the field. The same thing goes for a person in a pastoral ministry or teaching profession.
My wife says make no decisions right now and listen to people telling me to simply rest and write. Don't overthink it. Recover and get back in the fight. And that many missionaries before us died, so why do we think we are any better.Whew.
I've known people who changed vocations from "the ministry" to secular work, and it appeared to be the calling of God and His blessing was upon the new direction. So you can give up "the ministry" even if you are not sick; being sick does not necessarily have anything to do with it. But you are in no shape to make an unbiased decision right now.
What does your wife think? And have you gotten rid of parasites by the way?
I am doing very well after 20 months on meds for Graves disease, but during the period when my thyroid levels swung from way high to too low I felt like a slug (I am generally energetic) and like a cloud of lethargic gloom hung over me for months. I honestly think it was medical and not spiritual because it went away when they got my blood levels normal. There is no possible way you can make big decisions intelligently with lack of sleep and low thyroid and pain and all the rest. Please relax and don't even think about this decision until you are doing better. My opinion only, I could be wrong.
If you are planning to come back to the states you really need to get moving on applying for SS disability. That can take a while and you sure sound like you qualify. Maybe you can get it even if living abroad? Please look into it.
So sorry, will keep praying.
Thank you.Do listen to your wife, Pergy.
In my own experience of being pretty low where even emotions take a physical toll -- getting online (even here) can add emotions or tensions that do not contribute to recovery -- this is something many don't understand. I get in so worn out that I have to protect my empathy from overload (even the good joyful kind -- it all takes a physical toll; definitely for me conflict takes a toll). It might be the same for you and resting is your 'job' right now, for your family as much as for your future opportunities for ministry. Maybe ask Teresa about that too? To help you notice if you're doing 'extra' things that add stress and sap your ability to rest and recover. Ruben is better at noticing such things for me than I am.
It can seem very silly -- the things that overload. Ie, I had a short outing Thursday and have been struggling to stand up without the world going black, or even to sit up since. I had to go sit on the floor during the service this morning because I couldn't manage in the pew. It's hard to explain even to myself (gratefully my church family is wonderfully understanding). But under such conditions focus with the strength one has is absolutely vital, and it's the same in recovery as long term. I hope this doesn't come across as if I think I know what is best for others. Everyone has suggestions about these things, just longing to help a little -- me too apparently. But all we can do is share our own experience in case it helps, and pray -- and sympathise. And we do. You're very dear to all of us here. Recovery takes time! God has a plan in that, too.
Brother,I am writing and managing the funding of teachers/nurses/evangelists, and advising from afar. But I am just not recovering. I have invites for me to go and preach many places, but I cannot even get out of bed some days until 2pm. I am finishing a book and writing and several of my churches advise me that resting and writing are my main focuses now. My liver, spleen, and gallbladder are all still swollen, I have high rates of mercury in my blood, am peeing out protein, and my thyroid no longer works, and I have insomnia due to chronic severe pain.
No. The wife says to keep writing for the sake of keeping motivated but to rest when needed. She knows how I tick. She reminds me that my "ministry" duties now, as given by the churches and my sending church, are to rest, and write when able. So she dissuades me from any speaking becuase it might excite my nervous system (when I have any sort of appt I cannot sleep the night before). My adrenal glands are not working the doc says. But she encourages me to write.Brother,
I agree with the advice to rest--what I question is the advice to write. Do you feel like you are getting adequate rest with your writing, managing, and advising?
Do you include your advice to churches/missionaries as part of your writing?No. The wife says to keep writing for the sake of keeping motivated but to rest when needed. She knows how I tick. She reminds me that my "ministry" duties now, as given by the churches and my sending church, are to rest, and write when able. So she dissuades me from any speaking becuase it might excite my nervous system (when I have any sort of appt I cannot sleep the night before). My adrenal glands are not working the doc says. But she encourages me to write.
I don't think I want to take a break. I'd like to stay as involved as possible. If I can sleep 8-10 hours and play with the kids, then I can also spend the rest of the time writing or mild exercise or writing to people. Id' like to get back into the game and not sit on the sidelines. There is a stress to it, yes. But there is also joy.Do you include your advice to churches/missionaries as part of your writing?
The reason I ask is that it seems like you need a break from mission work--including mission work done remotely via letters, phone calls, emails, etc. You're so invested in the work that it's hard to believe that you can be involved at all without getting worked up about it.
Thanks.My instincts say to seek better health care in the States so that you can return to your ministry. The Mayo Clinic would have you diagnosed and on a treatment plan in very short order. They are very fast. The only delay would be the time some tests require. It could be as fast as 3-5 days. All of the specialists are at one location, and they try to work you through while you are there. Most people are coming from out of town. There is one in Phoenix, one in Rochester Minnesota, and one in Jacksonville Florida.
How long have you not been improving while resting there?
If you are advising them remotely there, advise them remotely here.
Then you will know what you are dealing with, and the prognosis.
I hope that I have not been too forward. We are praying for you and your ministry. Like you, I trust our Lord and His providence.
Yes, it is a "medical leave" more like it. A switch to admin duties until I can be back in the jungle.Perhaps a sabbatical is more appropriate than just quitting. It basically sounds like you're on one already without calling it that.
Ok. I also agree with your wife. Keep writing. You have an important story to tell, not only of your mission work, but the story of that infant church in that part of the world. One day people will want to look back and know how it all started, the lessons learned, the important participants, and so on. Who better than you to start writing it down?Yes, it is a "medical leave" more like it. A switch to admin duties until I can be back in the jungle.