I don't know many who could live in a sex-less marriage....
Again, the passage is being seen through modern eyes. Let's see it within the context of a culture where this action would be considered noble: "And Uriah said unto David, The ark, and Israel, and Judah, abide in tents; and my lord Joab, and the servants of my lord, are encamped in the open fields; shall I then go into mine house, to eat and to drink, and to lie with my wife? as thou livest, and as thy soul liveth, I will not do this thing," 2 Sam. 11:11. We must enter their world to properly understand their actions.