women and men's roles

According to what I'm seeing in the Bible, it seems like man/men should lead worship while the rest of the congregation's men sing along and the women remain silent? My own church deviates from this in having a woman lead worship while everyone sings. My pastors even let a woman preach recently...

I'm posting this here and not in the coffee shop or ladies tea parlor because I wanted to get the guys' and gals' opinions on this matter and because it will probably be a beneficial discussion for guests to view. The title of this post is taken from the title of an article found on...