The old covenant with its Tabernacle, and later its Land and its Temple, had its special places of memorial. It also had more than its share of false sites and illegitimate resorts, many denominated as "high places." The Tabernacle/Temple site was the sole place to which the people were summoned for pilgrimage.
Jacob was somewhat amazed (and encouraged) to find the LORD went with him from his father's tents in his exile journey. At the moment when his courage surely was about to waver, the LORD made a special appearance to him and gave him promises. Jacob, for his part, vowed to remember the LORD again in the same place when he returned in safety--a purpose he eventually fulfilled, Gen.35:7. But it was not to take some advantage of that spot, as if it was better an altar be built there than earlier in Schechem, Gen.33:20, or where he returned to his father's pastureland and altar (cf. Gen.26:25; 35:27). It was not a pilgrimage that took him past Bethel again, but the difficult journey (for pregnant Rachel) forced on him.
Jn.4:21, "Jesus said to her, “Woman, believe Me, the hour is coming when you will neither on this mountain, nor in Jerusalem, worship the Father." Let go the idolatrous passion for "holy places/spaces."