bconway52
Puritan Board Freshman
I have talked about these things with an elder and will be doing so with our preaching pastor and a few other men, but wanted to ask the advice of the Puritanboard...the more good advice I receive the better!
I will graduate with a B.S. of Religion from Liberty University in the summer of 08. I have started my own business selling used books and have been doing that for about a year. Its a pretty good job and makes a decent amount of money. I have been dating the girl whom I want to marry for almost 2.5 years and wish to marry her, my question is when should I? I was planning on proposing sometime near the end of this month and us getting married in the summer of 08. My plans for the future are: run the book business for money and, Lord willing, go to seminary as I feel called to the ministry.
My dilemma is this: one of the elders I spoke to suggested I hold off engagement until I figure out the seminary thing (which could be a year away). Should I focus on finishing school and the business so we can get married and wait on seminary until after we are married giving us some time to be married before seminary? Sexual purity is important to me and God has given the institution of marriage as a way to be pure. I do not think its wise for us to delay marriage for too long.
What do you think? If you need more info, just ask...I'm sure this post was pretty scattered as I just typed out my thoughts.
Thank you for any help!
Bradley
I will graduate with a B.S. of Religion from Liberty University in the summer of 08. I have started my own business selling used books and have been doing that for about a year. Its a pretty good job and makes a decent amount of money. I have been dating the girl whom I want to marry for almost 2.5 years and wish to marry her, my question is when should I? I was planning on proposing sometime near the end of this month and us getting married in the summer of 08. My plans for the future are: run the book business for money and, Lord willing, go to seminary as I feel called to the ministry.
My dilemma is this: one of the elders I spoke to suggested I hold off engagement until I figure out the seminary thing (which could be a year away). Should I focus on finishing school and the business so we can get married and wait on seminary until after we are married giving us some time to be married before seminary? Sexual purity is important to me and God has given the institution of marriage as a way to be pure. I do not think its wise for us to delay marriage for too long.
What do you think? If you need more info, just ask...I'm sure this post was pretty scattered as I just typed out my thoughts.
Thank you for any help!
Bradley