Originally posted by LadyFlynt
BTW, hubby and his family were all raised SBC...I went SBC as a teen when I met him. We have friends that are STILL SBC and talking with them is sad. One is open to mysticism and sees no contradiction. Another has to ask me to explain in small steps to her what I am talking about...and most things she admittedly has never even thought about. The churches have turned into 10min sermons on nothing (we visited the church we were married in occasionally). No one even says hi to eachother after service. Even our friends can't get close to anyone in the church that they GREW UP IN! When they were engaged, half the church told them that they need to prepare in case of divorce...we were the only ones (and we were already gone from the church) that told them to knock that word from their vocabulary and be determined otherwise if they even want a chance (they have a wonderful marriage now and are expecting babe #2)...now they are moving back to that area and her hubby wants to go back to that church
I hope the Founders start a little more ruckus.
Colleen,
In my humble opinion, you did not experience a typical Southern Baptist church. Yes, I have know many that have their problems, some worse than you have stated, but I would say what you experienced is not typical. I have NEVER been in a Southern Baptist church that said that newlyweds should prepare for divorce. Quite the contrary. What I was taught in Southern Baptist churches is what you told the couple...take the word out of your vocabulary.
Also, I've never attended a Southern Baptist worship service where the sermon was 10 minutes. I know a few that have as short as 20 minutes. When I preach at my church, which the pastor graciously lets me do even though he knows I'm a Calvinist, the members "settle in" because they know the sermon is going to be a little longer (about 35 to 40 minutes). It doesn't seem to bother them in the least.
As far as Purpose-Driven SBC churches and pop psychology preachers, well, I know a few. In fact, I believe these pose the greatest threats to our Southern Baptist churches right now, as well to many other churches of other denominations. I fear for Southern Baptist churches across Amercia and I believe the Founders Movement could be used of God to save the Convention, but it will be a long, hard, dirty road.
As far as the Founders Movement starting a ruckus, well, let's see what happens in Greensboro. BTW, MarK Dever, pastor of Capitol Hill Baptist Church in Washington, D.C., will be preaching at the Founders meeting prior to the Annual Meeting. He will be preaching on election and evangelism. Too bad I can't go. Maybe I would cause a ruckus.
