I have a massive dilema. Recently a member of the church resigned their membership but still attends - which is fine. They also have rejected the teaching of the Church as defined in the Westminster Confession of Faith- not good at all. We had the Lord's Supper recently and this person was allowed to take the Lord's Supper. Seeing that they had went forward for the Lord's Supper I declined. This took place about a month ago. What troubles me is that in my understanding of the Scriptures and the WCF that they should not have been permitted to the table. But am I being harsh? My conscience is greatly troubled by this because now I am concerned about my own conscience towards the session, additionally I have not been asked by my minister /session as to why I didn't take of the Lord's Supper - we are only a very small fellowship so it is impossible for him not to know. I have arranged to meet him to discuss this but I am very concerned about the whole affair. Am I being extreme - my conscience is in turmoil over the whole affair. I am greatly troubled.