Here is what I experience as a post-secondary student. Long before I came to know Christ, I met a Roman Catholic girl in high school. Because of her good appearance, I become extremely obsessed with her. She is like an emerald to me. Both of us were shy at that time, so we never attempt to have a serious engagement. Now, by the grace of God, I abhor the world's treatment of love and marriage. I am detested by the worldly perception that love is merely to satisfy one’s feelings. And I am horrified how people consider marriage as negligent and how they continue to persist in fornification. But the reality is, I am still obsessed with her. I want either to eradicate her out of my mind or to pray to God for her salvation before I can engage her. God forbid that I attempt in an “evangelistic dating” . So far, I pray earnestly to God for an appropriate resolution without an answer. Unless the issue is dealt with, I cannot further progress. Question: What are your wisdoms regarding this matter?