LadyFlynt
Puritan Board Doctor
Okay, yes I am
Here's to start...
a) this is NOT an attack on anyone who is D&R
b) let's not make this personal or bring in personal issues to it
c) I am not one to be so ungracious as to "cut off" a divorced person in normal church activities in the manner that many fundamentalists do and I have had friends that are D&R
On to the discussion...
The Pastor is going through the sermon on the mount. Unlike many pastors, he has decided to hit this topic head on with his own POV...he holds one of the two common POV, adultery only (the other being the 3 or 4 A's depending on how you count : abandonment, adultery, addiction, and abuse).
The verses in play here are Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:7-9. Other verses will come into play however.
1) please note that in Matthew 19:6 it says that no man shall put asunder. So in God's eyes are not the couple still married?
2) the pastor admitted that the two should reconcile...but that divorce is also okay. Well, if they can and should reconcile, why divorce? Scripture said it was for the hardness of their hearts...not that it was God approved.
3) in Galatians 5:19...if porneia means sexual sin (including adultery) in this context...then why is adultery (moicheia) included? If porneia is only used in broad context, then there would be no need to add moicheia as it would already be included. If porneia is used in a narrow context (sex before marriage) then that changes the context of the Matthew verses (see the case of Joseph and Mary).
4) If we even conclude that it IS refering to adultery (sex outside of one's marriage)...the WHERE does it say that they can remarry (including the innocent party)? I don't see it. I see the person is not bound to the duties of that marriage, but I also see that that person is still "one" with their spouse in God's view (even if not legally).
[Edited on 9-24-2006 by LadyFlynt]
Here's to start...
a) this is NOT an attack on anyone who is D&R
b) let's not make this personal or bring in personal issues to it
c) I am not one to be so ungracious as to "cut off" a divorced person in normal church activities in the manner that many fundamentalists do and I have had friends that are D&R
On to the discussion...
The Pastor is going through the sermon on the mount. Unlike many pastors, he has decided to hit this topic head on with his own POV...he holds one of the two common POV, adultery only (the other being the 3 or 4 A's depending on how you count : abandonment, adultery, addiction, and abuse).
The verses in play here are Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:7-9. Other verses will come into play however.
1) please note that in Matthew 19:6 it says that no man shall put asunder. So in God's eyes are not the couple still married?
2) the pastor admitted that the two should reconcile...but that divorce is also okay. Well, if they can and should reconcile, why divorce? Scripture said it was for the hardness of their hearts...not that it was God approved.
3) in Galatians 5:19...if porneia means sexual sin (including adultery) in this context...then why is adultery (moicheia) included? If porneia is only used in broad context, then there would be no need to add moicheia as it would already be included. If porneia is used in a narrow context (sex before marriage) then that changes the context of the Matthew verses (see the case of Joseph and Mary).
4) If we even conclude that it IS refering to adultery (sex outside of one's marriage)...the WHERE does it say that they can remarry (including the innocent party)? I don't see it. I see the person is not bound to the duties of that marriage, but I also see that that person is still "one" with their spouse in God's view (even if not legally).
[Edited on 9-24-2006 by LadyFlynt]