Hmm... So what if Christianity was perceived as racist by the populace would it be wrong to work to dispel that myth?
Or what if say.. we were in the early Church and we were being persecuted by the populace because they thought we were subversive toward government and that we were cannibals? Would it be wrong to work at dispelling that myth?
Also, see John Calvin when he writes to Francis I
I am aware, indeed, how, in order to render our cause as hateful to your Majesty as possible, they have filled your ears and mind with atrocious insinuations; but you will be pleased, of your clemency, to reflect, that neither in word nor deed could there be any innocence, were it sufficient merely to accuse.
After the above quote, Calvin goes on to clarify his position and show how his accusers were misrepresenting his theology(and causing a lot of persecution to Protestants in France). Was Calvin pragmatic in trying to improve the PR of the Reformation with the French Monarch?
From what I've found, people are attracted to humility and warmth. I've been involved in street evangelism for the past year or so. One time I got someone really mad because I was combative in my evangelism. They were angry, said some pretty mean stuff, and stormed off. Were they taking offense at the Gospel? In this case, no. They were taking offense at some youth interrogating them to find out if they were a true convert. I could have walked away and eased my troubled conscience by saying, "Blessed are those persecuted..." but that would have been dishonest. I was obnoxious, and people don't like obnoxious, arrogant youths.
But then at other times I was humble and loving in my approach, and the reception was much different. I have evangelized to a homosexual working at the car wash, told him how he was in sin and unconverted. I did it in love, and he actually appreciated me taking the time to evangelize him. I was with some friends so I had to cut it short because we were walking to pizza hut, but I prayed for him at pizza hut, and went back, and gave him a pizza. This guy was really touched that I got him a pizza, and it opened up more opportunities for sharing the Gospel at that car wash with a young teenager who just that day had been evangelized to by his Grandpa, a Presbyterian minister. This kid was not the type you would suspect to get converted.. Had a convertible and an attractive girl friend in the car, yet he enjoyed me taking the time to talk to him, actually hugged me before I left and said that he would think and pray about these things.
Sorry for that long anecdote, but for some reason that's how I make points, lol. I just know that those two experiences have taught me how active we are in sharing the Gospel. But from what the majority of people have been saying above, it seems like it doesn't matter how we behave, God is sovereign and he will save the elect, and the world is evil and will hate Christians.
Let them hate us for our doctrine, not because we are ornery. We all know ornery Christians lol. I was an ornery Christian through most of high school because of low self esteem, and believe me, I quoted "blessed are those persecuted" when someone was mean.