Mr.Wretched,
I would gently suggest that this is not a healthy way to build a strong marriage.
I am not married but I would believe and suggest that if there is anyone that a married person who is in bondage with such sins should confess and be accountable to, it should be his wife. To deceive and hide the matter would be sinning against her even more in my opinion. Our spouse, if we are married, should eventually become our number one accountability partner.
I would gently suggest that this is not a healthy way to build a strong marriage.