Ok, I need some feedback on this. I have come to the conclusion that the whole boyfriend/girlfriend attitude that is so common among teens is wrong (having been guilty of it once myself.). After watching very closely the immaturity of most "relationships" I find that they (teens) just have a boyfriend or girlfriend for the sake of having one or for fleshly lusts. I have noticed too, that this attitude is very common among Christians. I have a few friends who are awesome people, very godly... yet they go through 2-5 bf/gf's a year. Just by looking at it, I see flaws. Is not the whole purpose of having a gf/bf to be looking forward to marriage? I have heard of situations, where Christians believe that some guy should date about 10 girls at one time and eliminate them until he arrives at the one that he thinks God has chosen for him. That to me is just flat out wrong. So I have a few questions:
If a Christian guy likes a Christian girl, and they "get together", should not their intentions be looking forward to marriage?
Going through many lovers is sin, correct?
What is the Bible's way of courting, dating, etc?
Guys role, girls role?
Should a guy look for a girl, and if he finds one who he thinks is "the one" should he make attempts to court, date, etc?
I have studied this fairly well and have a fair argument against it... but I just need some feedback and verses that will help me along.
(Hope this is in the right forum, I could not think of where to put it)
If a Christian guy likes a Christian girl, and they "get together", should not their intentions be looking forward to marriage?
Going through many lovers is sin, correct?
What is the Bible's way of courting, dating, etc?
Guys role, girls role?
Should a guy look for a girl, and if he finds one who he thinks is "the one" should he make attempts to court, date, etc?
I have studied this fairly well and have a fair argument against it... but I just need some feedback and verses that will help me along.
(Hope this is in the right forum, I could not think of where to put it)