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McIlhaney, Joe. M.D. Hooked: New Science on How Casual Sex is Affecting Our Children
Thesis: sexual activity releases numerous chemicals into the brain that create emotional and neurological bonds between the participants. These bonds are values-neutral, even if the activity isn’t. The implication is that someone can find himself or herself bonding with the other even if he isn’t aware of it.
The authors give scientific explanations on what happens to the brain when the body engages in physical touching, sexual activity, etc. The chemicals create something like an addiction. For married couples, this is good. Sex makes them addicted to each other. I think there are passages in Paul and the Gospels where it says the same thing from a spiritual perspective (“one flesh,” “come together,” etc.).
But here’s the thing. This book got many angry because it seemed “preachy.” It isn’t. There is almost no discussion of religion or ethics. In fact, much of it is quite compatible with an evolutionary perspective (at least in the sense of the chemicals could be seen to further the continuation of the species, etc.). Why did people get mad? Because it tells the truth about hookup culture.
The book’s value is that it explains why premarital sexual activity is harmful at a deeper level than just “pregnancy” or “STDs.” Young people often need to know the rationale behind the prohibition.
Thesis: sexual activity releases numerous chemicals into the brain that create emotional and neurological bonds between the participants. These bonds are values-neutral, even if the activity isn’t. The implication is that someone can find himself or herself bonding with the other even if he isn’t aware of it.
The authors give scientific explanations on what happens to the brain when the body engages in physical touching, sexual activity, etc. The chemicals create something like an addiction. For married couples, this is good. Sex makes them addicted to each other. I think there are passages in Paul and the Gospels where it says the same thing from a spiritual perspective (“one flesh,” “come together,” etc.).
But here’s the thing. This book got many angry because it seemed “preachy.” It isn’t. There is almost no discussion of religion or ethics. In fact, much of it is quite compatible with an evolutionary perspective (at least in the sense of the chemicals could be seen to further the continuation of the species, etc.). Why did people get mad? Because it tells the truth about hookup culture.
The book’s value is that it explains why premarital sexual activity is harmful at a deeper level than just “pregnancy” or “STDs.” Young people often need to know the rationale behind the prohibition.