TaylorOtwell
Puritan Board Junior
For those of you who are married, what do you do when you and your spouse have two opposite concerns?
Let's use the example of vaccinations. The husband is worried that not vaccinating children may lead to harm for their children because of the diseases, while the wife is worried that the vaccinations themselves pose a health risk to the children.
If the husband decides to vaccinate the children anyways, how should the wife respond? She cannot simply ignore her concerns. On the other hand, if the husband decides not to vaccinate the children, the wife is concerned that she is not being submissive. The wife's level of concern is quite high, while the husband's level of concern is moderate.
What should they do?
Please don't use this as a thread to discuss the merits/risks of vaccines - that is provided just as an example.
Let's use the example of vaccinations. The husband is worried that not vaccinating children may lead to harm for their children because of the diseases, while the wife is worried that the vaccinations themselves pose a health risk to the children.
If the husband decides to vaccinate the children anyways, how should the wife respond? She cannot simply ignore her concerns. On the other hand, if the husband decides not to vaccinate the children, the wife is concerned that she is not being submissive. The wife's level of concern is quite high, while the husband's level of concern is moderate.
What should they do?
Please don't use this as a thread to discuss the merits/risks of vaccines - that is provided just as an example.