David073
Puritan Board Freshman
Hello all, I will begin with a brief preface and then will get into my concern.
Preface: In Jan. 2022 my father in law died. To better help my mother in law after this sudden loss me and my wife and kids decided to move in with her. She is a professing believer (though never reads the Bible anymore and doesn’t go to church) and observes xmas.
Concern: Since my mother in law celebrates xmas she has decorated the home in the traditional decor for this time of year (tree, stockings, etc.). She will be hosting xmas on Dec. 24th in which our whole family will be over. They will do gift exchanges, white elephant game, as well as other festive activities.
Me and my wife and children do not recognize nor observe xmas and will go about Dec. 24th as any other Saturday. My question is this, since the whole family will be at my house should I keep my children from participating in the festive games/activities? One activity will be, for example, a small gift will be saran wrapped a ridiculous amount of time and each participant has a small amount of time to unwrap it before it moves to the next person and ends when someone reaches the small gift.
I lean more on no participation for my family in these activities, yet my children are allowed to play with their cousins and me and my wife will be mingling downstairs with family we don’t see as often as we’d like since we don’t want to be shut in’s and stuck upstairs away from the gathering.
Sorry for the long winded post, but would just like some wisdom regarding this particular circumstance. Thanks!
Preface: In Jan. 2022 my father in law died. To better help my mother in law after this sudden loss me and my wife and kids decided to move in with her. She is a professing believer (though never reads the Bible anymore and doesn’t go to church) and observes xmas.
Concern: Since my mother in law celebrates xmas she has decorated the home in the traditional decor for this time of year (tree, stockings, etc.). She will be hosting xmas on Dec. 24th in which our whole family will be over. They will do gift exchanges, white elephant game, as well as other festive activities.
Me and my wife and children do not recognize nor observe xmas and will go about Dec. 24th as any other Saturday. My question is this, since the whole family will be at my house should I keep my children from participating in the festive games/activities? One activity will be, for example, a small gift will be saran wrapped a ridiculous amount of time and each participant has a small amount of time to unwrap it before it moves to the next person and ends when someone reaches the small gift.
I lean more on no participation for my family in these activities, yet my children are allowed to play with their cousins and me and my wife will be mingling downstairs with family we don’t see as often as we’d like since we don’t want to be shut in’s and stuck upstairs away from the gathering.
Sorry for the long winded post, but would just like some wisdom regarding this particular circumstance. Thanks!