Ben Zartman
Puritan Board Junior
From what scriptures do we derive the notion that part of a pastor's job is to engage in professional counseling, whether it be emotional, marital, pre-marital, or life-coaching? It seems to me that "counseling sessions" consume much the time of the pastors in my experience, such that they use it as a reason to neglect other duties, and then complain about how little time they have.
When the apostles got overwhelmed with secondary matters in Acts, they appointed deacons to take care of the other stuff so they could devote themselves to prayer and the Word.
Surely a pastor should be able to be sought for spiritual advice, but does that mean they should spend days and weeks doing scheduled "counseling sessions?" What if all that counseling takes them away from preaching, praying, and doing the work of an evangelist? Is the charge to "reprove, rebuke, exhort, warn" accomplished in a counseling session, or is that a charge for the pulpit ministry?
Should the pastors tell people: "Sorry, I'm not competent to diagnose or treat mental illness; please see a professional"? "Sorry, I'm not a financial advisor, please see Edward Jones?"
Do they over-reach their God-given duties when they dabble in things not required?
Related question: where does the Bible authorize or require weddings to be a religious event? Or, why do ministers perform weddings? Same with funerals. Were/are funerals a function of the church, either in OT or NT times?
When the apostles got overwhelmed with secondary matters in Acts, they appointed deacons to take care of the other stuff so they could devote themselves to prayer and the Word.
Surely a pastor should be able to be sought for spiritual advice, but does that mean they should spend days and weeks doing scheduled "counseling sessions?" What if all that counseling takes them away from preaching, praying, and doing the work of an evangelist? Is the charge to "reprove, rebuke, exhort, warn" accomplished in a counseling session, or is that a charge for the pulpit ministry?
Should the pastors tell people: "Sorry, I'm not competent to diagnose or treat mental illness; please see a professional"? "Sorry, I'm not a financial advisor, please see Edward Jones?"
Do they over-reach their God-given duties when they dabble in things not required?
Related question: where does the Bible authorize or require weddings to be a religious event? Or, why do ministers perform weddings? Same with funerals. Were/are funerals a function of the church, either in OT or NT times?