Guys, I don't see what the big deal is. Todd wants to be restored as a husband...you know, re-marriage can be difficult, and don't forget the pain abandoning your "failed marriage" and children can produce.
As Todd says in that link, he needed time to grieve...these were difficult circumstances that took advantage of him. You're not going to hold him responsible for circumstances outside of his agency, are you?
In case it wasn't obvious...the above was thick, over the top sarcasm.