Parents who refuse to baptize their infants in paedobaptist congregations?

[THE W]

I agree with Matthew. I also find it ironic that many who would not want someone to join a Presbyterian church who is conscience bound not to baptize his children, find it perfectly acceptable for said person to be a perpetual "visitor" for years (even decades). It seems to me that failure to join a church and be under authority is at least a significant a sin as refusing infant baptism.

pastor,

how much time would you allow someone to be a frequent visitor of your church before encouraging them be a member and how would you go about doing that?