Had to lure you to the thread with this most hated term, but it just might be appropiate. I have a friend who says he is seeking. He has no idea where to begin. Without a particular objection or question, I have little to say. Actually, all I thought to do was to quote two pieces of scripture: God opposes the proud, but gives grace to the humble. and, Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you. What would you say to a person who says that he is seeking, does not know how to go about seeking, and does not know where to start? Do you recommend an apologetic work of some kind, prayer (hard when the person doesn't actually believe and has no mediator through which to address God), actually seeking out a pastor, what?