I came to faith in Christ in 1979; right at the tail end of the "Jesus" movement in the United States. "Witnessing" was pushed heavily and the guilt that followed if you didn't witness (or witness correctly) was heavy. I decided to attend a fundamentalist bible college where witnessing ("personal evangelism" as it was called) was an art form. Now I'm on the Reformed side of things and have been thinking and discussing how to get a right handle on how a Christian should share their faith.
One aspect of sharing your faith in Christ, is what to do at the end? If you been part of the fundamentalist movement, as I was, you feel the suspense building to one final crescendo; where you ask the person you are witnessing to if they want to receive the Lord Jesus Christ. If they answer in the affirmative, you lead them in one of the many versions of the sinners prayer. Again, being on the Reformed side of things, I see the sinners prayer as at best, just a verbalization of what has taken place already; and worse, a false confidence in a change that has never taken place. For that reason I do not ask anyone to pray. If they are local I invite them to my church. If they are not local I ask them where they live and would they mind if I emailed or called them with a church in their area that preaches the gospel truthfully. I take it on myself to do some searching to find a church (or a few of them) in their area. I also ask them to dwell on the things we spoke about and read their bible (if they have one). That's it. But I must be honest and say that as a reformed fundamentalist, it still feels a bit unnatural not to seek that commitment.
I think Way of the Master has been good at this. They present "law and gospel" but do not seek an emotional decision or lead in a prayer of possible false assurance. I think you can call their ministry "seed planting." They simply plant the seed that God may seek to use in calling a sinner to Himself.
Thoughts?
One aspect of sharing your faith in Christ, is what to do at the end? If you been part of the fundamentalist movement, as I was, you feel the suspense building to one final crescendo; where you ask the person you are witnessing to if they want to receive the Lord Jesus Christ. If they answer in the affirmative, you lead them in one of the many versions of the sinners prayer. Again, being on the Reformed side of things, I see the sinners prayer as at best, just a verbalization of what has taken place already; and worse, a false confidence in a change that has never taken place. For that reason I do not ask anyone to pray. If they are local I invite them to my church. If they are not local I ask them where they live and would they mind if I emailed or called them with a church in their area that preaches the gospel truthfully. I take it on myself to do some searching to find a church (or a few of them) in their area. I also ask them to dwell on the things we spoke about and read their bible (if they have one). That's it. But I must be honest and say that as a reformed fundamentalist, it still feels a bit unnatural not to seek that commitment.
I think Way of the Master has been good at this. They present "law and gospel" but do not seek an emotional decision or lead in a prayer of possible false assurance. I think you can call their ministry "seed planting." They simply plant the seed that God may seek to use in calling a sinner to Himself.
Thoughts?