My wife is 12 years younger than I am, and is working on her Counseling degree, the church she grew up in was Arminian and slightly Charismatic. Well, our move to the PCA has been part of a long strange trip, (spiritually speaking of course ) anyway, she went to a big RUF thing down in Florida. She has been to different classes/sessions. Well, I talked to her a few nights ago and she had been to a 2 night session focusing on TULIP: She told me "It is suddenly all starting to make sense!" Of course it does! I am proud of her!