Pilgrim
Puritanboard Commissioner
Recently I've seen a number of obituaries, death notices and have heard sermons confidently stating that a professing Christian who committed suicide "Went to be with the Lord." I find this troubling. This is often in the case of ministers who have committed suicide, but it is seen with the suicide of others as well.
I'll say at the outset that I do not take the Arminian or traditional Roman Catholic view that all suicides are damned. I'm not saying that it is an unpardonable sin. But I wonder if we are too confident to, in effect, preach them into heaven, especially if they are on "our team" theologically.
For the better part of two decades in Reformed circles (more or less) I've heard that the only person's salvation we can have true assurance of is our own. Yet today professing Christians who commit the sin of self-murder are confidently said to be in heaven by Calvinistic Christians who have continually denounced "cheap grace" and "easy believism." What is the basis for this?
I'll admit that my knee-jerk reaction to those who without hesitation assert that professing Christian people are in heaven is that they should apologize to those who they have denounced as purveyors of "cheap grace" and "easy believism" such as Charles Ryrie if not Zane Hodges. By taking this position, haven't they shown that they really believe the same thing, especially when it comes to their friends? (His teaching on discipleship and sanctification notwithstanding, contrary to popular opinion, Ryrie did teach that the believer must produce fruit, although he said that this may not be visible to anyone but God.)
I wonder if these assertions of suicides going to be with the Lord actually leads some to commit suicide by assuaging their conscience? How many in the past have decided against suicide because they feared they'd go to hell if they committed this sin?
Didn't some Puritans and Reformers teach that suicide is a sign of apostasy? I can't find anything offhand right now, however, besides the more recent resources here, (starting about halfway down the page) here, and here, which appear to me to be sounder approaches.
I'll say at the outset that I do not take the Arminian or traditional Roman Catholic view that all suicides are damned. I'm not saying that it is an unpardonable sin. But I wonder if we are too confident to, in effect, preach them into heaven, especially if they are on "our team" theologically.
For the better part of two decades in Reformed circles (more or less) I've heard that the only person's salvation we can have true assurance of is our own. Yet today professing Christians who commit the sin of self-murder are confidently said to be in heaven by Calvinistic Christians who have continually denounced "cheap grace" and "easy believism." What is the basis for this?
I'll admit that my knee-jerk reaction to those who without hesitation assert that professing Christian people are in heaven is that they should apologize to those who they have denounced as purveyors of "cheap grace" and "easy believism" such as Charles Ryrie if not Zane Hodges. By taking this position, haven't they shown that they really believe the same thing, especially when it comes to their friends? (His teaching on discipleship and sanctification notwithstanding, contrary to popular opinion, Ryrie did teach that the believer must produce fruit, although he said that this may not be visible to anyone but God.)
I wonder if these assertions of suicides going to be with the Lord actually leads some to commit suicide by assuaging their conscience? How many in the past have decided against suicide because they feared they'd go to hell if they committed this sin?
Didn't some Puritans and Reformers teach that suicide is a sign of apostasy? I can't find anything offhand right now, however, besides the more recent resources here, (starting about halfway down the page) here, and here, which appear to me to be sounder approaches.
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