Chuck,
I do pray at times for a husband but I pray more than anything that I would BE CONTENT with the Lord's will for me - whatever it may be - even if it is singleness. You seem to think that is a curse....I disagree STRONGLY...I don't think that makes me a feminist. But if it does - well perhaps the Lord is pleased with it.
Today, I am wedded to Christ - and I am pleased to be His alone - and to question that, or view it as a curse is discontentment I think.
Perhaps someday he'll give someone "charge" over me - but I pray it will never be a man who would discourage my zeal and longing to learn and be used.
You ask if I am preparing to be the best helpmate I can be - yes I am. I believe that knowing GOD (theology) is THE BEST prep. any woman can do. If you think that something else a wife does for her husband is more important than that, perhaps you might reevaluate your own priorities. I'm not trying to be difficult - just trying to be real here...
about shamefacedness - it is one of the words Paul commands women to be in the passage where he says they should be modest etc. and that they shouldn't teach men. personally I take it to mean that women are not to be aggressive in their actions towards men - ie, flirtatious and forward as men are to be initiators in relationships with women. You seem to disagree since you think I should, as a single woman, seek a man to marry. What would you advise?
I do pray at times for a husband but I pray more than anything that I would BE CONTENT with the Lord's will for me - whatever it may be - even if it is singleness. You seem to think that is a curse....I disagree STRONGLY...I don't think that makes me a feminist. But if it does - well perhaps the Lord is pleased with it.
Today, I am wedded to Christ - and I am pleased to be His alone - and to question that, or view it as a curse is discontentment I think.
Perhaps someday he'll give someone "charge" over me - but I pray it will never be a man who would discourage my zeal and longing to learn and be used.
You ask if I am preparing to be the best helpmate I can be - yes I am. I believe that knowing GOD (theology) is THE BEST prep. any woman can do. If you think that something else a wife does for her husband is more important than that, perhaps you might reevaluate your own priorities. I'm not trying to be difficult - just trying to be real here...
about shamefacedness - it is one of the words Paul commands women to be in the passage where he says they should be modest etc. and that they shouldn't teach men. personally I take it to mean that women are not to be aggressive in their actions towards men - ie, flirtatious and forward as men are to be initiators in relationships with women. You seem to disagree since you think I should, as a single woman, seek a man to marry. What would you advise?