It's extremely difficult for me as I increasing tend to see the headstones as a waste of life on worthless wars. Given that many of these men were conscripted and threatened with imprisonment and even death for not "doing their duty", I find it hypocritical to support it without caveats.
Zach, be very careful where you get your sources for the thoughts, emotions, and motivations of warfighters in previous generations. Much of what is pumped out today is coloured by the angst of today. (The same can be said about many of the 'facts' surrounding the wars.) I know first hand many men who were conscripted, did not want to participate, but knew that duty meant denial of personal desire. Because of this they fought and fought with duty and honour, and yes pride. Duty is not a trait taught, let alone cherished, by most today; especially those under the age of forty.