Hello:
Below are some excerpt from a transcription of a sermon that I heard preached from the pulpit last summer. When I heard this sermon, I was deeply concerned about what was preached. Since then I have expressed concerns to many others in my church and the church's leadership. However, everyone just looked at me like I was being sinful for not agreeing with this sermon. Here are the various excerpt which are in italics with my questions in bold:
Is a man's Headship Role Only Ceremonial?
Is Patriarchy Wrong, and Christian marriages should discard it?
BTW, I have transcribed the whole sermon which is about eight pages typed. And I can assure everyone, that the above excerpts are the main key points. Right now my believe is that this teacher is teaching his flock that patriarchal marriages is wrong, and that marriages should be egalitarian in nature.
Below are some excerpt from a transcription of a sermon that I heard preached from the pulpit last summer. When I heard this sermon, I was deeply concerned about what was preached. Since then I have expressed concerns to many others in my church and the church's leadership. However, everyone just looked at me like I was being sinful for not agreeing with this sermon. Here are the various excerpt which are in italics with my questions in bold:
Is a man's Headship Role Only Ceremonial?
Notice that Adam's original position as head of the human race was ceremonial.
And emphasizes the man, it implies God's original will that every husband and every father assume a ceremonial role that reflects the original headship of Adam. Ceremonial role not an authoritarian one. To clarify God's will to wife and children taking the lead in pointing them to God. Not originally to rule but instead to point to the way to the only one who is worthy of rule.
And men take on once again the ceremonial role of headship in the home pointing to the Lord Jesus is the only worthy ruler, and women joyfully submit, agreeing that Christ is indeed the only one who is worthy to rule.
Is Patriarchy Wrong, and Christian marriages should discard it?
Now you notice that since patriarchy, the rule of men over women was decreed by God after the fall it therefore as a result of sin.
And patriarchy still dominates our homes in a fallen world. But we can begin to relearn God's original design of headship. Which points to Him as our one and only authority.
Is patriarchy the rule of men eliminated in a Christian home? Not yet, as far as I can tell. But the more men and women are filled with Christ spirit, less struggle there is for power in the home. Why? Because as men rediscover Biblical headship they stop point to themselves as the authority.
I don't think patriarchy is going to go away anytime soon.
Just as governments and armies tend to keep order between broken nations perhaps patriarchy tends to bring order to families without Christ.
BTW, I have transcribed the whole sermon which is about eight pages typed. And I can assure everyone, that the above excerpts are the main key points. Right now my believe is that this teacher is teaching his flock that patriarchal marriages is wrong, and that marriages should be egalitarian in nature.
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