Webservant
Puritan Board Sophomore
My wife and I were having a discussion today about marriage. Neither of us believes that marriage should be a function of the state - in other words, a marriage commitment made before God and men is clearly valid, and the license is the state's way of sticking its nose where it doesn't belong.
She then asked me what constitutes a marriage ceremony. I stumbled, and I stammered - and I had no answer. I cannot think of any instructions in the Scriptures which would answer that question. It's clear that marriage is more than just a commited relationship, but at it's barest minimum, at what point are you married?
I suppose that if one were stranded with one's girlfriend on a remote island and wanted to marry, in theory, you could roll your own ceremony, and get married - right?
She then asked me what constitutes a marriage ceremony. I stumbled, and I stammered - and I had no answer. I cannot think of any instructions in the Scriptures which would answer that question. It's clear that marriage is more than just a commited relationship, but at it's barest minimum, at what point are you married?
I suppose that if one were stranded with one's girlfriend on a remote island and wanted to marry, in theory, you could roll your own ceremony, and get married - right?