Thank you for your response - I apologize for not responding sooner.
You said marriage IS ITSELF an allegory. Now you are saying it is USED AS an allegory. You might need to tighten up your argumentation.
Yes, marriage at times is an allegory/is used as an allegory in Scripture. In context I was saying I believe that
Songs of Songs is not an allegory - it is a real love song about a real marriage, with the latter being an allegory of God's love for His people. I'm not sure I see any of this being contradictory as you seem to suggest.
OK, let's consider it. The love between Christ and the church is the examplar which the marriage between a man and a woman is to follow. There is no allegory here. Then the latter part of the passage speaks of a mystery in the union between Christ and the church.
I see this passage as a bit more than just showing how "The love between Christ and the church is the examplar which the marriage between a man and a woman is to follow." For example, in vv.25-27, he could have just said: "Husbands,
love your wives, even as Christ
loved the Church, and gave Himself for it..." as John does when he wrote "Greater
love than this hath no man, when any man bestoweth his life for his friends." (John 15:13) and "Hereby have we perceived
love, that He laid down His life for us: therefore we ought also to lay down our lives for the brethren." (1 John 3:16). But Paul goes further in Ephesians 5 and continues "...that he might sanctify it, and cleanse it by the washing of water through the word, that he might make it unto himself a glorious Church, not having spot or wrinkle, or any such thing: but that it should be holy and without blame." In my mind that goes far beyond simply providing an exemplar for marriage.
Ephesians 5.31 summarizes human marriage: "For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife, and they twain shall be one flesh." When v.32 begins "This is a great mystery..." isn't it still referring to human marriage, followed by a conjunction of contrast (translated "but" or "however") - in other words, not an exemplar, simile, or metaphor? Is it really talking about "a mystery in the union between Christ and the church" or is it showing that human marriage can function as an allegory of divine love, neither of which we can fully understand? Isn't this "mystery" the same one referred to by Agur in Proverbs 30: "There be three things hid from me: yea, four that I know not: The way of an eagle in the air, the way of a serpent upon a stone, the way of a ship in the midst of the sea, and the way of a man with a maid." (vv.18-19)?
Is your concern is the break with what some view as a Puritan tradition of viewing Solomon's
Song of Songs as an allegory to avoid the grotesque hyper-sexualized interpretations of
The Song? I do acknowledge that danger, and I do believe the marriage described in
Songs of Songs is an allegory, but only insofar as it is describing a real, historical marriage. I also believe this interpretation is in keeping with WCF 1.9: "The infallible rule of interpretation of Scripture is the Scripture itself; and therefore, when there is a question about the true and full sense of any scripture (which is not manifold, but one), it must be searched and known by other places that speak more clearly." I believe the evidence I laid out in my paper demonstrates that
The Song was about a real, historical marriage - I would be curious to know if you find the intertextual reasoning convincing or not.