Chris what's a your mileage may vary kind of thing? I guess one of the points I wanted to make is that a continuist can subscribe to the Westminster standards whereas a dispensationalist cannot. The fact that there are continuists of all different stripes does certainly complicate this. Its kind of hard to lump Carson, Piper, Driscoll and the truly reformed in one continuist camp. It may be that continuists are typically more antimonian, but it needn't be so; whereas being dispensational by very definition implies antimonianism of a sort.
your mileage may vary=Your mileage may vary. In other words, anecdotal evidence. None of us knows what everybody out there believes, etc. In my case, in my "mileage" those you describe are outliers at best, especially among strict subscriptionists. Admittedly however I am not very well acquainted with "broadly Reformed" or "barely Reformed" evangelicals in the PCA or other NAPARC denominations although I do have somewhat more knowledge of the EPC. But that's what I had in mind with the TULIP+paedobaptism+Presbyterian government="subscription" statement in an earlier post. For what it's worth, I do know that some PCA TE's who are otherwise quite conservative (meaning more or less confessional otherwise) will do things like invite visitors out to eat lunch after Sunday worship. I'm sure there all kinds of exceptions men take to the standards beyond the usual ones. But how many PCA or ARP presbyteries would say that a continuationist (or much more, a practicing charismatic) doesn't even have to take an exception? How many would say it is not even an issue? On the other hand, how many candidates and credentials committees would reject such a one altogether, especially a tongue speaking charismatic?
There are hundreds of posts on this board arguing over whether or not a continuationist can affirm the WCF (Article I in particular) with most of the participants in the threads I've seen taking the position that they cannot. (I simply direct you to those posts to see the argumentation unless someone else wants to take that up now.) A good many would argue that continuationism violates the system of doctrine found in the standards and thus flunks the test of system subscription along with "truly reformed" strict subscription. Back to your mileage may vary, I don't know of anybody (which includes online acquaintances) who would be considered a TR strict subscriptionist who is continuationist. An exception might be a few who would cite some alleged charismatic occurences among the covenanters. But however many would be in that camp is maybe 1% of the number of "Young Restless and Reformed" Calvinistic Baptists who could not affirm the 2nd London Baptist Confession.
My point with regard to the continuationist camp the OP seems to have in view is that the overwhelming majority of them outright reject covenant theology and the Reformed confessions and so by definition reject Reformed teaching on sanctification and the 4th Commandment every bit as much as MacArthur type dispensationalists do. (See my last post about what MacArthur types (whether Dispensational or no) believe about sanctification in practice vs. some others as well.) Those who reject covenant theology and the confessions include Carson, Piper, Driscoll, Schreiner (and evidently most of the SBTS faculty, for example, especially in the theology dept), Mahaney, most likely everyone affiliated with Acts 29, etc. I mention all of those names simply because, off the top of my head, it pretty much covers the bases from an academic and/or leadership standpoint.
Another big factor in the recent popularity of Calvinistic soteriology in evangelicalism is modern praise or CCM music, with a good many of the artists today being both Calvinistic in theology and charismatic in theory or practice. This is seen with the Passion conferences, for example, as well as Reformed rap, although I don't know how much the latter is employed in stated worship. The RPW is nonsense and "legalism" or "fundamentalism" to most of them whether they crank up the electric guitars or not. Thus, some might say that most of what is today referred to as the "New Calvinism" is Calvinistic soteriology married to some form of seeker sensitive worship and outlook (generally speaking) as opposed to "ordinary means" ministry.