JOwen
Puritan Board Junior
Dear brothers,
Recently in our presbytery a ruling elder (who is also a new Student under care) has come forward with the sad confession that one of his older children (15 or 16 years old) refuses to abide any longer under the governing laws of the Christian home and has taken it upon herself to run away from home. She has made it clear that she is not a believer nor does she care about the Christian values that have raised her.
This elder has other children (some older some younger but all teens or young adults) that are sublime examples of a godly heritage and are in full subjection and submission to the rules of this home. The testimony of the other children is one of covenant blessing and Christ\'s faithfulness.
I need some help in working out 1 Tim 3:4 1Ti 3:4 "One that ruleth well his own house, having his children in subjection with all gravity". Do you think that this elder should step down from his office?
Here is my take on it. I would appreciate any insight you may have, especially those who are seasoned presbyters.
The AV rendering is less informative at this point because τεκνα εχοντα is better rendered "having children" in subjection. This would indicate that in the home, the father is one who not only rules well (that is with gravity according to the Word of God), but that there is a dominant theme among his children of respectful obedience to the rule of law and the rule of Christ. If a father has 5 children, and 4 of them are in godly subjection to the head with all gravity, and one refuses to adhere to Christ's authority, this does not remove the qualification already present, namely, that there are children who are in subjection.
This passage is speaking strongly to the neglect of godly parenting rather than the result of one child who does not wish to be in subjection to Christ (such as Eli, who did not use his authority, or lay his commands upon his sons). The question should go further that the simple prima facia of the matter especially when this child has removed himself from the home.
Thoughts?
Kind regards,
Jerrold
Recently in our presbytery a ruling elder (who is also a new Student under care) has come forward with the sad confession that one of his older children (15 or 16 years old) refuses to abide any longer under the governing laws of the Christian home and has taken it upon herself to run away from home. She has made it clear that she is not a believer nor does she care about the Christian values that have raised her.
This elder has other children (some older some younger but all teens or young adults) that are sublime examples of a godly heritage and are in full subjection and submission to the rules of this home. The testimony of the other children is one of covenant blessing and Christ\'s faithfulness.
I need some help in working out 1 Tim 3:4 1Ti 3:4 "One that ruleth well his own house, having his children in subjection with all gravity". Do you think that this elder should step down from his office?
Here is my take on it. I would appreciate any insight you may have, especially those who are seasoned presbyters.
The AV rendering is less informative at this point because τεκνα εχοντα is better rendered "having children" in subjection. This would indicate that in the home, the father is one who not only rules well (that is with gravity according to the Word of God), but that there is a dominant theme among his children of respectful obedience to the rule of law and the rule of Christ. If a father has 5 children, and 4 of them are in godly subjection to the head with all gravity, and one refuses to adhere to Christ's authority, this does not remove the qualification already present, namely, that there are children who are in subjection.
This passage is speaking strongly to the neglect of godly parenting rather than the result of one child who does not wish to be in subjection to Christ (such as Eli, who did not use his authority, or lay his commands upon his sons). The question should go further that the simple prima facia of the matter especially when this child has removed himself from the home.
Thoughts?
Kind regards,
Jerrold