Thran
Puritan Board Freshman
Greetings Puritanboard,
The previous week I had a conversation with a friend over the role of women in the Church. He is a humanist and holds to egalitarianism. Firstly he asked about why the ministry should be restricted from 'capable' women who feel they want to serve in this way. Secondly, he asked about women being on the mission, inferring that qualifies as women teaching men in the Church.
I began by saying this stems from how man and woman are made, with distinct yet complimentary roles intended to serve the home and Church. I quoted the verse from I Timothy 2v12 (ESV): "I do not permit a woman to teach or to exercise authority over a man." I said that while we do have examples of women correcting others in the scriptures, the day to day leadership and teaching in the Church is intended for men by God's design. Then I said that a Christian woman will be happy to obey the voice of God in the scriptures, she will not want to do what is forbidden so this is not a case of excluding her. I perhaps should have added that since we are created by God for His glory, we will only find true contentment in obeying his will, that applies to both man and woman.
He then asked why God has made it so? I replied that it was God's design and intention in creation to make man and women His image bearers with their respective strengths, to rely on and serve each other in the family and in the church. So thus they are suited for certain roles. This can be evidenced in the psychological and physiological differences we are designed with.
For his second query on women missionaries, I said we have cases of women in scripture evangelising/bringing words from God to many (such as Acts 21v9) so such could be technically permitted, but if a church were to be founded we would need male elders. Paul appointed qualified men in each church he planted. Later I thought of this next point, I will add it the next time. Perhaps it is better for missionary families of husband and wife rather than lone women. Not least of all for safety, but also for mutual comfort and avoidance of said authority/leadership problem.
I am not sure whether I persuaded him or not, but this ended that conversation. I think for him the underlying problem is hearing God in scripture since he went on to say 'we know better now.' He's a good friend, very sharp but has come from complete atheism to being somewhat open to Christianity. Please pray that God will continue drawing him if that is what this means. These kinds of questions often come up in conversation and are as useful for finding holes in my thinking if anything! With that said, if anyone would like to add something or comment on how I did, I would be grateful.
The previous week I had a conversation with a friend over the role of women in the Church. He is a humanist and holds to egalitarianism. Firstly he asked about why the ministry should be restricted from 'capable' women who feel they want to serve in this way. Secondly, he asked about women being on the mission, inferring that qualifies as women teaching men in the Church.
I began by saying this stems from how man and woman are made, with distinct yet complimentary roles intended to serve the home and Church. I quoted the verse from I Timothy 2v12 (ESV): "I do not permit a woman to teach or to exercise authority over a man." I said that while we do have examples of women correcting others in the scriptures, the day to day leadership and teaching in the Church is intended for men by God's design. Then I said that a Christian woman will be happy to obey the voice of God in the scriptures, she will not want to do what is forbidden so this is not a case of excluding her. I perhaps should have added that since we are created by God for His glory, we will only find true contentment in obeying his will, that applies to both man and woman.
He then asked why God has made it so? I replied that it was God's design and intention in creation to make man and women His image bearers with their respective strengths, to rely on and serve each other in the family and in the church. So thus they are suited for certain roles. This can be evidenced in the psychological and physiological differences we are designed with.
For his second query on women missionaries, I said we have cases of women in scripture evangelising/bringing words from God to many (such as Acts 21v9) so such could be technically permitted, but if a church were to be founded we would need male elders. Paul appointed qualified men in each church he planted. Later I thought of this next point, I will add it the next time. Perhaps it is better for missionary families of husband and wife rather than lone women. Not least of all for safety, but also for mutual comfort and avoidance of said authority/leadership problem.
I am not sure whether I persuaded him or not, but this ended that conversation. I think for him the underlying problem is hearing God in scripture since he went on to say 'we know better now.' He's a good friend, very sharp but has come from complete atheism to being somewhat open to Christianity. Please pray that God will continue drawing him if that is what this means. These kinds of questions often come up in conversation and are as useful for finding holes in my thinking if anything! With that said, if anyone would like to add something or comment on how I did, I would be grateful.