toddpedlar
Iron Dramatist
I think the parallel isn't bad, really.
That being said, I can't continue to harp on the same things. By going I think you are making a huge mistake. Apart from the clear problems already presented you (1 being her heretical teaching that you'd be listening to and 2 being the fact that she is presuming to teach the audience she does) there is this - you will find that in going you'll have lost a lot of traction with your friends should you ever hope to guide them to the truth. Why would they believe you when you say that JM teaches heresy if you went alongside them and agreed to sit under that teaching? Why would they believe you when you try to teach them about the unBiblical nature of women who claim to be pastor/teachers? You're losing all kinds of credibility in going. You also (and this was brought up before but I think is in need of reiteration) are giving your wife mixed messages and not helping her out in leading, especially if she is prone to like what she hears from JM.
I don't know what you mean by "it went as I expected" - I assume you mean that your wife didn't take the news well. I hope, though, that you presented it firmly. I think along with everyone else here that it is really, really, really a huge mistake to go and accept this woman's teaching (even if you go home and do a post-mortem). Your going says to your wife and to your friends that you think there's a worthy reason to sit under that teaching.
That being said, I can't continue to harp on the same things. By going I think you are making a huge mistake. Apart from the clear problems already presented you (1 being her heretical teaching that you'd be listening to and 2 being the fact that she is presuming to teach the audience she does) there is this - you will find that in going you'll have lost a lot of traction with your friends should you ever hope to guide them to the truth. Why would they believe you when you say that JM teaches heresy if you went alongside them and agreed to sit under that teaching? Why would they believe you when you try to teach them about the unBiblical nature of women who claim to be pastor/teachers? You're losing all kinds of credibility in going. You also (and this was brought up before but I think is in need of reiteration) are giving your wife mixed messages and not helping her out in leading, especially if she is prone to like what she hears from JM.
I don't know what you mean by "it went as I expected" - I assume you mean that your wife didn't take the news well. I hope, though, that you presented it firmly. I think along with everyone else here that it is really, really, really a huge mistake to go and accept this woman's teaching (even if you go home and do a post-mortem). Your going says to your wife and to your friends that you think there's a worthy reason to sit under that teaching.