I think you are saying some good things. However the problem is Paul uses two different Greek words for coverings in the text in 1 Corinthians, this shows that Paul does distinguish hair from a physical covering (veil). Paul is clearly asking women to have som form of a physics covering (veil) during a public worship gathering. Also I do NOT think this physical covering was silly. According to the text if men wore the physical covering this dishonored Christ! If women did not have the physical cover this dishonored her head (her husband)./
First, let me apologize for the saying of "silly old hat". I didn't mean to offend you or anyone else.
I also said head coverings have nothing to do with hair, so we agree on this point.
1Cor 11:6 For if a wife will not
cover her head, then she should cut her hair short. But since it is disgraceful for a wife to cut off her hair or shave her head, let her
cover her head.
1Cor 11:15 but if a woman has long hair, it is her glory? For her
hair is given to her for a
covering.
1Cor 11:6 ἀκατακαλύπτῳ: 1) disguise
1Cor 11:15 περιβολαίου :1) a covering thrown around, a wrapper 1a) a mantle 1b) a veil
As you can see, the Greek word for covering in verse 11 means disguise and the Greek word for covering (her hair) in verse 15 means veil etc. Paul is stating that in some way a woman should be covered. We all agree on this.
Verse 6 tells us how to thoroughly cover a woman. She is to be disguised. The English definition of disguised is to "give (someone or oneself) a different appearance in order to conceal one's identity." Verse 15 tells us that a woman's hair is her covering or veil. Now we know that hair does not disguise a woman. Her hair could be considered as effective of a covering as a veil would be (verse 15). But verse 6 tells us women are to be disguised while praying. It's not sufficient to use hair (which is also considered a veil in the Greek) or a material veil for a covering for neither of these two disguise a woman.
Now we have to ask why God would command a woman to be disguised when both He and the angels (frankly so would the congregation) know who the woman is no matter what type of disguise she wore? I think we need to find the answer in a clearer Scripture.
1 Timothy 2:11 Let a woman learn quietly with all submissiveness. 12 I do not permit a woman to teach or to exercise authority over a man; rather, she is to remain quiet. 13 For Adam was formed first, then Eve; 14 and Adam was not deceived, but the woman was deceived and became a transgressor.
Both Scriptures are speaking to order and authority. This is the principle subject of both Scriptures. 1 Timothy, however, is a clearer Scripture.
1 Timothy instructs women to never teach or have authority over men and then adds the more strict command of being silent or quiet. Yet in 1 Cor 11 he instructs women to pray with their heads covered. It's like he's bipolar and is saying two different things. "Paul, am I to be quiet or am I to pray? Make up your mind!" one could say. But he isn't saying two different things. He is in fact saying the same thing only in a different manner.
1 Tim is showing the clear instruction that women are to never have authority over men via teaching, preaching, etc. If I were to preach to you, then I would actually have authority over you which we all agree is wrong and disorderly. But God extends his command unto the point of women being silent in corporate worship. For what reason? For the sake of order before God and the angels.
Now we have the command in 1Cor for women to pray. Praying is not a silent act. We know that God can hear the silent prayers of a women when she prays along with the pastor. How can praying be considered silence then? It is deemed qualified silence because her prayers are disguised/covered by the authority of her husband (for married women) or by the authority of the pastor (for single/widows). In essence, women pray through men (their husbands or the pastor) in corporate worship. Thus their prayers are being disguised/covered or in other words the women is in fact being silent because their prayers are offered to God through the man.
When women pray in church they pray under the authority of their husbands or if they are single under the authority of the pastor. How we worship God in corporate worship is still as important as how they worshipped God in the OT. God is still as holy as he ever was. Therefore, there needs to be order and order comes through authority. It's authority that is the true covering which God gave to men. The authority of a husband over his wife is the covering or disguise between herself and God/the angels while praying during corporate worship. Man is to have the authority in church. His wife comes under him and is thus hidden (covered/disguised) in him. Single/widowed women come under the authority of the pastor and are thus hidden (covered/disguised) in him.