need some advice

[hudsony]

i am desperate to hear some of your advice on this topic.
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please help a young pastor out! thanks

 

[ZackF]

If you are confessional in your beliefs don't you have elders and disciplinary procedures? This sounds like one for the pastoral forum.

 

[NaphtaliPress]

Welcome to the PB. Please fix your signature by following the link in mine.
As to the question, that is not a subject to broach in an open forum given how widely available Google makes PB's open forums. So I have edited it all out.
Please contact a moderator about privileges for posting in the private forums. Better yet; some of the pastors on PB could contact you via private message to give you advice.