Andrew,
Thanks for all of those quotes! Reading about God's affection for the church makes me yearn to feel that way myself, and has shown me that I don't have a right affection.
I especially appreciate these:
...that he loved Jerusalem for Zion's sake, or for the temple, which is oft said to be in Zion; which place he loved and chose for his peculiar dwellingplace. More than all the dwellings of Jacob; more than all other places of the land of Canaan in which the Israelites dwelt.
and
This should lead each separate believer to identify himself with the church of God; where the Lord reveals his love the most, there should each believer most delight to be found. Our own dwellings are very dear to us, but we must not prefer them to the assemblies of the saints; we must say of the church—
"Here my best friends, my kindred dwell:
Here God, my Saviour reigns."
I guess a related question that I have is, Is it true that when the Psalms use Jacob and Israel as parallelism, they do so to stress that God loves us personally and corporately?
For instance,
from Psalm 135:4 "For the Lord has chosen Jacob for himself,
Israel as his own possession."
You're welcome! That is an interesting question. I see the distinction between personal and corporate (or rather, family and public) very clearly in Ps. 87.2, but not so much in Ps. 135.4. There I see the synonymous Hebrew parallelism of Jacob = Israel, to be his own = his treasured possession, which reinforces the concept being iterated, ie., as in "Shew me
thy ways, O Lord; Teach me
thy paths" (Ps. 25.4) or "Therefore shall they eat of the fruit of
their own way, and be filled with
their own devices" (Prov. 1.31).
Jer. 31.7 For thus saith the LORD; Sing with gladness for
Jacob, and shout among the chief of the nations: publish ye, praise ye, and say, O LORD, save thy people, the remnant of
Israel.
Jer. 31.10 Hear the word of the LORD, O ye nations, and declare it in the isles afar off, and say, He that scattered
Israel will gather him, and keep him, as a shepherd doth his flock.
Jer. 31.11 For the LORD hath redeemed
Jacob, and ransomed him from the hand of him that was stronger than he.
But I would be interested in hearing more thoughts on this matter, because it is an intriguing thought, and I can't say that I have studied it in-depth.
Dr. Clark reminded me of another question we have. We were recently wondering where the idea of family worship comes from in the Bible. We know that reading and worshipping God alone, together, or corporately is good, and we do try to practice all three, but we see such an emphasis on family worship in our covenant theological circles. Is that a tradition that we do b/c it is a good thing, or because it is a necessary thing?
Thanks!
Sorry, for such

questions
Family worship is one of those duties, as J.W. Alexander says, that permeates all of Scripture, and its force as such is derived by good and necessary consequence, and by example.
In my own experience, as I observe Reformed churches today, it is a much-neglected aspect of worship, and that is why I try to reinforce it here on the PB as often as I can. You can find a number of threads and resources that I have compiled and contributed in a recent post
here.
Also see this quote I posted last night:
http://www.puritanboard.com/f32/exhortation-family-religion-thomas-gouge-40943/
As for the Scriptural basis for it (which is covered in the many books on family worship cited in the link, notably, George Hammond,
The Case for Family Worship, and J.W. Alexander,
Thoughts on Family Worship), here are some verses to bear in mind (this is just a sampling, more can be adduced, and a careful analysis of the pattern of family worship will begin with Adam and Eve):
Gen. 18.19 For I know him [Abraham], that he will command his children and his household after him, and they shall keep the way of the LORD, to do justice and judgment; that the LORD may bring upon Abraham that which he hath spoken of him.
Deut. 6.6-7 And these words, which I command thee this day, shall be in thine heart: And thou shalt teach them diligently unto thy children, and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thine house, and when thou walkest by the way, and when thou liest down, and when thou risest up.
Joshua 24.15 And if it seem evil unto you to serve the LORD, choose you this day whom ye will serve; whether the gods which your fathers served that were on the other side of the flood, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land ye dwell: but as for me and my house, we will serve the LORD.
1 Sam. 20.6 If thy father at all miss me, then say, David earnestly asked leave of me that he might run to Bethlehem his city: for there is a yearly sacrifice there for all the family.
2 Sam. 18.20a Then David returned to bless his household.
Job. 1.5 And it was so, when the days of their feasting were gone about, that Job sent and sanctified them, and rose up early in the morning, and offered burnt offerings according to the number of them all: for Job said, It may be that my sons have sinned, and cursed God in their hearts. Thus did Job continually.
Jer. 31.1 At the same time, saith the LORD, will I be the God of all the families of Israel, and they shall be my people.
Jer. 10.25 Pour out thy fury upon the heathen that know thee not, and upon the families that call not on thy name: for they have eaten up Jacob, and devoured him, and consumed him, and have made his habitation desolate.
Zech. 12.12-14 And the land shall mourn, every family apart; the family of the house of David apart, and their wives apart; the family of the house of Nathan apart, and their wives apart; The family of the house of Levi apart, and their wives apart; the family of Shimei apart, and their wives apart; All the families that remain, every family apart, and their wives apart.
Acts 10.2 A devout man [Cornelius], and one that feared God with all his house, which gave much alms to the people, and prayed to God alway.
1 Pet 3.7 Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.
The Christian Family