Rather than a focus on the "male" partner as a kind of "source" for the transmission of that
flesh-connected inclination to sin (aka, concupiscence),
the Scriptural view (reflected in our Confessional theology) is that natural generation (
natural being
ordinary) is the means. Two/both sinners.
As simple as it sounds, to make male seed the sole instrument--which then seems to clear the Virgin Birth of a "taint"--this ends up with a mixed up condition for women in general (that, though being thoroughly sinful, they nonetheless have "pure" or at least non-sin-tainted ova); besides supplying a kind of first step of backwards and fallacious reasoning toward the immaculate conception theory. I.e., for X final condition, Y must necessarily be a precondition; etc.
The question of transmission of sin-nature to a human soul raises the question of the source of the soul itself, for which there are two basic positions: creationist and traducionist; the former meaning that God supplies each personal existence mediately with a body (parentally) and a soul immediately. The latter view understands that both body and soul (the latter more mysteriously) are born of parental substance. Traducionism appears to be the more common view among Reformed theologians, having on balance the fewest difficulties associated. But, creationism has the one great advantage of mooting the question of Jesus' pure soul from conception/quickening/birth.
But the truth is that humanity per se is not innately sinful, but
fallen humanity. Concupiscence is innate to fallen humanity; and the overshadowing power of Holy Spirit is the grace by which the Son is born with and from our human nature (out of Mary), yet without sin (her SIN!), yea without concupiscence even.
Original Sin is comprised of 1) the guilt of Adam's first sin; 2) the want or lack of original righteousness; and 3) the corruption of his whole nature (see WSC 18); which results in all the actual transgressions that proceed from it, and are added to it, making up our whole sinful estate.