Ex Nihilo
Puritan Board Senior
I think the matter of serial attachments may be the most significant issue in the way that relationships are manifesting strain in our time.
That is probably what I agree with Brother Lawrence about the most. Sparing his daughter of years of petty puppyish romances and more serious breakups even when purity is preserved. That more than anything just plain jades a women and it make men even more indifferent about marriage at all.
This is all so true. And by keeping a good relationship with his daughter, he is unlikely ever to have to enforce his standards through raw paternal power. (Not that a father shouldn't do this, if necessary, but surely everything works much more smoothly when the daughter directs her own heart according to those standards.)