ArminianOnceWas
Puritan Board Freshman
First, let me say (not that it really matters) that the "friend" I am describing is not myself. I was so blessed to finish seminary without debt because of a grandmother that wanted a grandson to go into ministry, and now I have been able to go back to seminary without debt because of inheritance.
However, I have a friend, within my Wesleyan denomination who like me is convinced of Reformed theology but unlike me doesn't seem intent to leave our current body for a Reformed ecclesiastical connection as I will in '18.
When I pressed this minister on why he wouldn't consider this, especially given that I feel like a child who cannot wait for Christmas when it comes to my transition next year, his response was that he arrived at seminary with about $5K of undergrad debt and ended up with $60K debt while in seminary, of which about $40K remains.
Within our current body, ordained ministers are guaranteed a minimum salary and a job and this minister believes that he cannot ask his wife and now children who are transitioning into adolescence to potentially go back to seminary (which wasn't the brightest time of their life) which would likely result in more debt, and/or leave the denominational security blanket in order to possibly start near the bottom (as in church size = salary due to his newcomer status). He still has a decade or so before this debt is paid off.
I certainly realize that truth in doctrine and integrity of preaching are of overwhelming importance. I also realize financial responsibility is great significance as well as a man's duty to family. It seems that my friend is between a rock and hard place. The more he opened up, the more I could tell that his heart really wants to transition but he is burying the idea due to financial pragmatism.
My feelings go out to this gentleman, and I wonder what other ways there are for him to look at his situation or ideas of how I may be a blessing to him. I am humbly looking for a steady hand of wisdom in what I am finding to be a near burden of my heart.
However, I have a friend, within my Wesleyan denomination who like me is convinced of Reformed theology but unlike me doesn't seem intent to leave our current body for a Reformed ecclesiastical connection as I will in '18.
When I pressed this minister on why he wouldn't consider this, especially given that I feel like a child who cannot wait for Christmas when it comes to my transition next year, his response was that he arrived at seminary with about $5K of undergrad debt and ended up with $60K debt while in seminary, of which about $40K remains.
Within our current body, ordained ministers are guaranteed a minimum salary and a job and this minister believes that he cannot ask his wife and now children who are transitioning into adolescence to potentially go back to seminary (which wasn't the brightest time of their life) which would likely result in more debt, and/or leave the denominational security blanket in order to possibly start near the bottom (as in church size = salary due to his newcomer status). He still has a decade or so before this debt is paid off.
I certainly realize that truth in doctrine and integrity of preaching are of overwhelming importance. I also realize financial responsibility is great significance as well as a man's duty to family. It seems that my friend is between a rock and hard place. The more he opened up, the more I could tell that his heart really wants to transition but he is burying the idea due to financial pragmatism.
My feelings go out to this gentleman, and I wonder what other ways there are for him to look at his situation or ideas of how I may be a blessing to him. I am humbly looking for a steady hand of wisdom in what I am finding to be a near burden of my heart.