That's great. We do too. But there was more to that quote:
"Since we must make judgments about God’s will from his Word, which testifies that the children of believers are holy, not by nature but by virtue of the gracious covenant
in which they together with their parents are included, godly parents ought not to doubt the election and salvation of their children whom God calls out of this life in infancy"
Again, I am no strong student of Dort, so I am not necessarily arguing one way or the other, but this branch of our disagreement seems really weird to me.
If it is not *ultimately* by parental status in the covenant which necessarily includes the status of faith on the parents' part, then it must simply be up to God and His mercyas *He* is the ground of the saving faith of the parents as evidence for their status in the New Covenant, yes?
How are we any different on a salient and/or an ultimate level?
(NOTE: earlier,
@MW said our ground was in something unknowable like election. This was not true. Our ground is in God's decree and mercy and while a bit semantic, it is important for the status of election may not be knowable but the grace and love and mercy of God are things that are quite knowable and known by believers.)
If it helps anyone for me to be a bit open and vulnerable for a moment, I myself am still a bit torn on what I would say to any grieving parent of an infant dying.
I lean heavily towards Spurgeon's case that all infants who die are elect, but I have open questions that I myself would like to explore and investigate along those lines. I am not pre-committed to that position.