I would like to know the opinions of the board of John Calvin's commentary on this passage. JOwen has already posted it but nobody seemed to notice it or read it. I'll post it again.
" The Lord is not slack concerning his promise, as some men count slackness; but is longsuffering to us-ward, not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance. " 2 Peter 3:9
But the Lord is not slack, or, delays not. He checks extreme and unreasonable haste by another reason, that is, that the Lord defers his coming that he might invite all mankind to repentance. For our minds are always prurient, and a doubt often creeps in, why he does not come sooner. But when we hear that the Lord, in delaying, shews a concern for our salvation, and that he defers the time because he has a care for us, there is no reason why we should any longer complain of tardiness. He is tardy who allows an occasion to pass by through slothfulness: there is nothing like this in God, who in the best manner regulates time to promote our salvation. And as to the duration of the whole world, we must think exactly the same as of the life of every individual; for God by prolonging time to each, sustains him that he may repent. In the like manner he does not hasten the end of the world, in order to give to all time to repent.
This is a very necessary admonition, so that we may learn to employ time a right, as we shall otherwise suffer a just punishment for our idleness. "Not willing that any should perish". So wonderful is his love towards mankind, that he would have them all to be saved, and is of his own self prepared to bestow salvation on the lost. But the order is to be noticed, that God is ready to receive all to repentance, so that none may perish; for in these words the way and manner of obtaining salvation is pointed out. Every one of us, therefore, who is desirous of salvation, must learn to enter in by this way.
But it may be asked, If God wishes none to perish, why is it that so many do perish? To this my answer is, that no mention is here made of the hidden purpose of God, according to which the reprobate are doomed to their own ruin, but only of his will as made known to us in the gospel. For God there stretches forth his hand without a difference to all, but lays hold only of those, to lead them to himself, whom he has chosen before the foundation of the world. But as the verb ch?re? is often taken passively by the Greeks, no less suitable to this passage is the verb which I have put in the margin, that God would have all, who had been before wandering and scattered, to be gathered or come together to repentance."
It is obvious from this commentary that John Calvin did not take the common "calvinistic" interpretation of this text. He clear believes the longsuffering and unwillingness is towards all mankind in order to offer them salvation.
Now, I personally, do not favor Calvin's interpretation on this particular passage, even though I have no problem with Calvin's sentiment here and the truthfulness of it. God is indeed longsuffering to all mankind. But I do not take the other interpreatation for the same reasons as already mentioned here on this thread. I do not believe the "audience" argument can be sustained, it is a bad argument, because just because a letter is written to a particular audience does not mean that it cannot deal with subject matter that has a broader reference and application than to the "audience".
I would argue that the context of preservation of the righteous and the reserving of the wicked to judgment repeated several time in chapter 2 and again repeated again in chapter 3, sets the context, and therefore we have a Romans 9 parallel. Therefore God is not willing that any of those elected to repentance perish, and will certainly bring all to repentance, but will certainly judge the wicked and ungodly that are reserved for judgment and wrath.
Blessings in Christ,
Terry W. West
P.S. I do, however, see merits in Calvin's interpretation. And just to reiterate, the "Letterhead/audience" argument does not sufficiently counter Calvin's interpretation.