in the media we often see individuals drinking after a hard day of work to take the edge off - is this taking the place of someone trusting in Christ and turning to him in prayer?
One might just as well ask whether drinking coffee in the morning is taking the place of personal devotions. For nonbelievers undoubtedly it can take the place of prayer, but I find that coffee pairs well with the Word. And similarly, I can come home and give thanks to God for a beer after a long day.
I think bobtheman's point was if people routinely go for a drink at the end of a working day to "take the edge off" or "relax", then that is clearly idolatry. Instead of resting on Christ they are resting on alcohol. And it's just the same with coffee. When things like these become "necessities" and we start having cravings or get into patterns then something's not right. We need to eat and drink to nourish the body but we should never need alcohol or caffeine.
ReformedReidian said:
"3. Does alcohol serve any purpose other than intoxication?
If people drink without getting drunk, then does that fellowship count as a "purpose"?"
Do they need alcohol to have fellowship though? If so, there's something wrong. It's the Spirit which unites, not alcohol. Or at least that's how it should be.
The drinking of alcohol in small amounts is lawful. But in reaction to those churches which prohibit it, there are many in the Reformed community who go to the opposite extreme and extol it and promote it in a way which is unseemly and sinful. For a start, Christians should not be going to pubs and other places where alcohol consumption is the focus and where it is promoted as an end in itself. Noisy, raucous venues where people routinely drink to excess- even if the Christian doesn't- are the venues of the world. They are where the world goes to talk about the things of the world whilst drinking the drinks of the world. This is no place for a Christian.
But even in our own homes we need to be careful. Some say that the drinking of alcohol aids theological discussion. I find this a very shaky argument. There was a Reformed Forum Christ the Center episode- no. 200 maybe?- which was just a 2 hour roundtable discussion. Throughout that discussion the men were imbibing (by their own admission and from the frequent openings of bottles) and, surprise surprise, as the discussion progressed they got louder, more raucous, more argumentative and it ended up becoming a most unedifying spectacle (for the ears). They were drunk and it was obvious they were drunk. It was really quite shameful. Is this the sort of theological discussion we want? And it's not just alcohol. Certain quarters in the Reformed camp also extol the virtues of smoking! And they combine the two. Smoking, which is basically a violation of the 6th commandment.
It is often from a spirit of licentiousness that the arguments in favour of these things is made. I think if arguments like "we need to watch to see when we might start slipping into drunkenness or have others watch" are problematic. We should never be in that situation in the first place!