buggy
Puritan Board Freshman
Friends, remember when I said I used to be from a fundamentalist church? I've got a problem now...
Although I worship at a RB church now, *technically* I remain a member of my previous fund. church. Sooner or later I will have to seriously consider church membership in my new church. However, the tricky issue will be how to carry out the transfer. My fundamentalist pastor will almost definitely NOT approve of a transfer to a non-indy fundy church.
I won't divulge any identities because I do not want to publicly criticize anyone or mispresent my previous church's beliefs.
I have decided to leave in a quiet way after telling him in an email (many months ago) why. I explained to some of the members that I left for another church. Even told a deacon I'm at a RB church now.
Now, one of the pastor's close friends - is looking for me. Once every few months he'll contact me online and ask about my situation. I have largely evaded contact because I think he is most probably trying to "talk" me back to rejoin the fundamentalist church. (because he usually doesn't bother me when I was back at the IFB)
What should I do? Whenever I am reminded of my fundamentalist past I kinda of feel very nervous/stressful... your help and prayers, please!
Although I worship at a RB church now, *technically* I remain a member of my previous fund. church. Sooner or later I will have to seriously consider church membership in my new church. However, the tricky issue will be how to carry out the transfer. My fundamentalist pastor will almost definitely NOT approve of a transfer to a non-indy fundy church.
I won't divulge any identities because I do not want to publicly criticize anyone or mispresent my previous church's beliefs.
I have decided to leave in a quiet way after telling him in an email (many months ago) why. I explained to some of the members that I left for another church. Even told a deacon I'm at a RB church now.
Now, one of the pastor's close friends - is looking for me. Once every few months he'll contact me online and ask about my situation. I have largely evaded contact because I think he is most probably trying to "talk" me back to rejoin the fundamentalist church. (because he usually doesn't bother me when I was back at the IFB)
What should I do? Whenever I am reminded of my fundamentalist past I kinda of feel very nervous/stressful... your help and prayers, please!