Mr. Myers, what I am saying is that you will hear from arminians all kinds of verses that imply we have the ability to follow Jesus, or we have the ability to repent. This is because they see verses with a general call going out to repent and follow Jesus. These verses may imply that but we know from other very explicit scripture that we do not have a natural ability to repent or follow Jesus without a working of the Holy Spirit first.
While I appreciate your kindness and respect by calling Mr. Myers, please, if you're going to call me anything (especially if it is craphead or butthole

), call me Bradford. So, what "other very explicit scripture" is there regarding infant baptism? If it was that "very explicit," do you think this would be such a divide? In other words, what is "specific" may be relative, for right or wrong reasons (though there is only one correct view, of course). Your hermeneutic guides your infant inclusion as does our hermeneutic guides our "infant exclusion." We all agree what circumcision was (confessional Christians). We all agree what baptism is (confessional Christians). We all agree to whom circumcision was to be applied (confessional Christians). We all agree there is continuity and discontinuity from the OC to the NC (as confessional Christians). But what is the difference between us applying the same baptism to the unchurch converted and the children of NC members based solely on them being children of NC members? I would say exegesis, which then directs our hermeneutic (though sometimes it is the other way around, for right or wrong). What is so explicit about your view that we do not see?
My point is that believers baptims folks seem to do the same thing. They see believe and be baptized as proof that we must believe before we can be baptized. Which is why they exclude little children or babies. Yet we know that in the OT this was not the practice of those in covenant with God. You gave everyone the sign. This was I believe a no-brainer to them in that day because of federal headship.
Tell me, in the Old Testament, was there a command to repent and believe prior to circumcision so that circumcision could be applied (i.e. to those grafted into Israel)? And, you didn't give everyone the sign, but only males. I simply want to keep this discussion as on-target as possible without language that implies something that isn't true. Little exagerations such as that can really fluff up one's position. How are you conflating "federal headship" with the application of the sacrament? In the OT, if a husband is grafted into Israel, so is the wife, even if the wife does not believe. *THAT* is OT and first century greco-roman headship. (For instance, picture the movie "The Godfather," and you have the picture of the greco-roman headship of the grandfather, or oldest living male. What he said was law, regardless of anyone's agreement. The servants of the engrafted alien were also deemed members of Israel, with or without their consent or actual belief. Surely this is not the federal headship you are espousing?)
The same way we all fell in Adam our federal head, and the same way we are saved through our new head Christ, is the same way our earthly fathers are our heads in the family structure. In fact Eph 5:23 even states that our earthly fathers are the head of the wife like Jesus is the head of the church. 1 Cor. 11 go into detail about the creational order of headship. Thus not only the women and children but even a bought servant of the household of an Israelite male was circumcised.
Yes, but all husbands--Christians or Muslims or Atheists--are heads of their wife. Paul is telling us to be the head of the wife in the Christian-moral example of Christ the head of the church. Headship of the family exists with or without Christ being present, or the Christian faith being present. Paul is merely telling the husbands, as Christians, to be the head of the household in a Christian manner. This is why it is a "creational order." It is the same reason a marriage of pagans is a genuine, true marriage from the divine perspective. It is the same reason pagans having headship over their wives and family. They merely pervert how the headship is to be performed. I'm having a hard time seeing your correlation between the necessity of headship and the necessity of baptism. I think you are reading a bit too much into family headship, and I don't know how this is Arminian, or like an Arminian hermeneutic. I might as well say all paedobaptists who do not adhere to theonomy are using an Arminian hermeneutic because no Scripture explicitly says the case-laws are no longer binding.
To leave all this out and ignore it basically and go by an implication in scripture is a big mistake. I don't think it was ever explicitly layed out in language we would like because it was a no-brainer then. What the father did had repercussions on the whole family. Our modern culture has blinded us to this truth of scripture and subjection to the head of household as practiced historically.
Hmmm... you mean an implication like: "Though all the other covenants commanded the inclusion of infants, if it was included, yet this one does not, we can 'imply' it continues, even though it is not stipulated?" I actually think *YOU* are making implications of Scripture in order to justify *YOUR* view. Do you see how easy that is to say? It is another thing to prove, though, which you have not done. Your implications regarding infants in the OT--though no clear, explicit Scripture exists in the documentation of the New Covenant writings--is driving *YOUR* hermeneutic. No where does Scripture teach the civil-case laws are abrogated in a "very explicit scripture." If it were that explict, there wouldn't be theonomists. However, they go upon an "implication of Scripture" from the OT to the NT (or OC to the NC). And, trust me, even your ideal view of "head of household" for Christian families in the 21st century is
nothing compared to the actual head of household policies in the OT or in first century Rome. There are principles that are universal, to be sure, and I'm not denying that. But being a head of the house is not unique to the cult, but is a general creation mandate unto the cult and the culture. We simply have a different way (unperverted way) of doing it in the cult based upon special revelation.
Anyway, I still fail to see your argument of correlation between head of household and baptism, or baptism and Arminianism. I think I am more confused by your position, which I think makes my reply even more confusing. I'm not sure how to address your points, or, rather, how your points reflect on the Arminian position of exclusion of infants.