I'm a bit sad with this thread.

Not exactly the way to make an entrance to a BB, I know. Sorry. I don't want to come here as to judge.
Let me just share a bit of my background, perhaps? I was raised in the roman catholic tradition -- salvation by works, all that sort of thing. Even as a child, though, I had a deep love for GOD and somehow (the Holy Spirit, perhaps?) knew there was more than the 'good nuns' were teaching us.
After I began having my children the LORD graciously saved me and I, with great trepidation, entered a Baptist church.

It was very scary to someone who had been reared on catholic doctrine. A sure way to eternal damnation, dontcha know? Any fool knew the only way to Heaven was through Rome!
I spent almost twenty years in dispensationalism. Know what bothered me right up front about that?? Being told, at least in that first church that I went to, that Christ came to earth to gather the Jewish people, but they rejected Him. The Crucifixion and all it's implications were, in effect, Plan B.

Holy cow! Really? GOD? The Creator of the Universe? He was unable to carry out His plan? WOW! That just didn't make any sense to me. (Again, I'm sure the Holy Spirit was working in my heart, soul, mind, body, every fibre of my being).
I read my Bible and saw verses that talked about the elect being chosen since before the foundation of the earth (that must be that 'heretic' Calvin that the nuns tried to warn us about, right?). If the Crucifixion is, as my dispensationalist pastor told me, Plan B -- how would you explain 1 Peter 1:18-20? Just reading through the Gospel of John, there are many references to being chosen by GOD. Is it all that easy? Or is it GOD's amazing grace that comes in to play here? I suspect, no, I believe with every fibre of my being that it is indeed the amazing, awesome, wonderful, blessed grace of my GOD that has brought me to whatever knowledge I have of Him. And for this, I kneel before Him in thanksgiving forever.
I did finally make it into a Reformed Church. I love the reformed and covenant theology I have been privileged to hear from the pulpit. Sometimes though? Sometimes I think we all get just a wee bit cocky about it all.

I've heard my elders make jokes about Rome -- especially when they know we have catholics visiting. Not good. Not good at all. It's not like this storehouse of knowledge is something we're responsible for, it's like our salvation, it's all of grace... everything, every moment, every breath. Thank you LORD, for all you've given to me.
PS... I'm really not an old curmudgeon

-- Honest. Just wanted to give credit to GOD.