Reformingstudent
Puritan Board Junior
I have a question:
What is your opinion of someone who claims to forgive an offense, but keeps dragging it back up whenever it comes to their mind? I know of a person who keeps holding a grudge against me even though I had repented and sought forgiveness awhile back and thought that according to this person I had been forgiven already. I was told that I was.
I had a falling out with this same person a while back, and at the time, my past offense came up once again. This person shows very little grace toward others and keeps accounts of past wrongs, but at the same time expects to be forgiven for the wrong that she does. I never claimed to be free of sin or wrong doing, but I have tried to put things right when I knew
I erred.
This same person, although possessing a lot of head knowledge of theology and claims to have a relationship with Christ, shows by her attitude that a lot of what she claims to believe in has not reached down to her heart. What I would like to know is mainly this, is it possible for someone to be a five point Calvinist and have a lot of understanding of theology and still be lost and if so, how can any one know for sure if they are truly saved or not? I know that we are called to examine our selves to see if we are in the faith but what of those, like this person who claims to know Christ but shows very little evidence that she truly does. I know that a good understanding of theology is important and I do not mean to sound anti- theolgical, but Paul him self said in 2Tim 1:12 that he knew in Whom he had believed, not just what he belived. Relationship to Christ is the most important thing, every thing else is secondary.
Not saying that the learning of theology isn't important, it is, but is just knowledge alone enough? how many people can know scripture and recite the WCOF backward, but substitute knowledge for having a real relationship with Christ?
Sorry for ranting, just wanted to know what others thought.
Blessings.
What is your opinion of someone who claims to forgive an offense, but keeps dragging it back up whenever it comes to their mind? I know of a person who keeps holding a grudge against me even though I had repented and sought forgiveness awhile back and thought that according to this person I had been forgiven already. I was told that I was.
I had a falling out with this same person a while back, and at the time, my past offense came up once again. This person shows very little grace toward others and keeps accounts of past wrongs, but at the same time expects to be forgiven for the wrong that she does. I never claimed to be free of sin or wrong doing, but I have tried to put things right when I knew
I erred.
This same person, although possessing a lot of head knowledge of theology and claims to have a relationship with Christ, shows by her attitude that a lot of what she claims to believe in has not reached down to her heart. What I would like to know is mainly this, is it possible for someone to be a five point Calvinist and have a lot of understanding of theology and still be lost and if so, how can any one know for sure if they are truly saved or not? I know that we are called to examine our selves to see if we are in the faith but what of those, like this person who claims to know Christ but shows very little evidence that she truly does. I know that a good understanding of theology is important and I do not mean to sound anti- theolgical, but Paul him self said in 2Tim 1:12 that he knew in Whom he had believed, not just what he belived. Relationship to Christ is the most important thing, every thing else is secondary.
Not saying that the learning of theology isn't important, it is, but is just knowledge alone enough? how many people can know scripture and recite the WCOF backward, but substitute knowledge for having a real relationship with Christ?
Sorry for ranting, just wanted to know what others thought.
Blessings.