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Puritan Board Freshman
As the firstborn of the family, I would like to ask two family-related questions.
I am troubled with a dilemma right now - on one hand, I believe that it is my role now to pursue independence as an adult - on the other hand - my dad keeps telling me to take some responsibility in the family. Is it the scriptural duty of the first-born to assume the responsibilities of the parents if they do not fulfill it due to man-made excuses (such as career-ism, family politics, or dysfunctional families, but not things like disabled parents etc.)
I noticed that the Scriptures are not very explicit in the role of grown-up children (corrections please!). On one hand, you have Genesis implying that one is only free from parental authority upon marriage (Gen. 2:24), but on another hand, a grown-up man/woman is responsible for whatever vows that they have made to the Lord (Numbers 30:1-3). How can these two verses be reconciled?
I am troubled with a dilemma right now - on one hand, I believe that it is my role now to pursue independence as an adult - on the other hand - my dad keeps telling me to take some responsibility in the family. Is it the scriptural duty of the first-born to assume the responsibilities of the parents if they do not fulfill it due to man-made excuses (such as career-ism, family politics, or dysfunctional families, but not things like disabled parents etc.)
I noticed that the Scriptures are not very explicit in the role of grown-up children (corrections please!). On one hand, you have Genesis implying that one is only free from parental authority upon marriage (Gen. 2:24), but on another hand, a grown-up man/woman is responsible for whatever vows that they have made to the Lord (Numbers 30:1-3). How can these two verses be reconciled?
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