Spiders do not bother me. I had a spider encounter about 18 years ago. I was asleep and woke up when I felt something bite me. For some reason I called Poison Control, and they said take some Benadryl and watch the spot. I did that. About three hours later I woke up thinking I was having a heart attack. I called again, and they said go to the hospital. I called my sister-in-law who called 911. The ambulance came and the EMT found a black widow in my pillow case. The spider bit me through my pillow case. I was so sick I thought I was going to die. It took me a while to recover. Thankfully it was me and not my then one year old.
It still doesn't bother me to see a spider, but put a snake anywhere near me and I'll pass out for sure! Leah, I can't see them in movies, pictures, or at the zoo. I used to check my blankets every night before I went to bed, look under my bed, etc. to make sure there weren't any snakes around. I've gotten over most of it now. I still can't stomach a picture or the thought of one being anywhere near me.