Ryan&Amber2013
Puritan Board Senior
Hello friends. I hope all is well. Please share some wisdom you have gained through your experience.
I always want to use my words perfectly, but at times it seems certain types of people can take things I say the wrong way. I know this isn't always my problem, as some people's emotional/phycological problems make them unsteady in life.
I never have ill intentions when speaking to anyone. I always try to speak to others in a friendly, thoughtful way, and I like to be silly and light-hearted. I'm always trying to be conscious about how I come across to others, and I enjoy carrying conversations with people, so I am comfortable with talking.
Is it best to be friendly and outgoing, and joke a bit with people, or is it best to be a quiet and reserved person, making sure we don't offend anyone or come across the wrong way?
It's sad that I even have to discuss this, but this is what our world is coming to. I just want to make others happy, but knowing I may make some emotionally unstable person upset over my outgoingness is really discouraging. And I'm not speaking of anything sinful, like inappropriate talk.
How do you go about this? Thanks so much!
I always want to use my words perfectly, but at times it seems certain types of people can take things I say the wrong way. I know this isn't always my problem, as some people's emotional/phycological problems make them unsteady in life.
I never have ill intentions when speaking to anyone. I always try to speak to others in a friendly, thoughtful way, and I like to be silly and light-hearted. I'm always trying to be conscious about how I come across to others, and I enjoy carrying conversations with people, so I am comfortable with talking.
Is it best to be friendly and outgoing, and joke a bit with people, or is it best to be a quiet and reserved person, making sure we don't offend anyone or come across the wrong way?
It's sad that I even have to discuss this, but this is what our world is coming to. I just want to make others happy, but knowing I may make some emotionally unstable person upset over my outgoingness is really discouraging. And I'm not speaking of anything sinful, like inappropriate talk.
How do you go about this? Thanks so much!