ValleyofVision
Puritan Board Freshman
Happy (almost) New Year fellow Puritan Brothers and Sisters!
I'm back with a thought that crossed my mind over the Holiday. Alright, so a little back story: my younger brother is 21 and one of his good friends from Church and Bible study is struggling with homosexuality. For better words, not struggling but, overcoming it by the grace of God. He strongly desires to obey the Lord and turn from his sin, and so far he claims he is on the right path. I was talking to my brother about it after he left and there was something that I disagreed with, which I'm wondering your opinion about.
My brother was saying that he hangs out with him pretty much all the time (along with other guys and girls, kind of like a group thing) but that sometimes they will hang out (at his house) really late at night, watch movies, do Bible studies, etc. I do know that his friend still gets tempted, by what he was saying to me over the Holiday weekend, and it made me question if my brother was doing the right thing by being with him alone... at night... hanging out? I feel a little um, silly, saying this because I'm not sure if I'm way off thinking this but, knowing that he is gay, couldn't he form an attraction to my brother being with him this much?
My brother and I discussed his beliefs which he believes homosexuality is a sin, but does not believe that he should stop treating him as a human being and just abandon their friendship. I completely agree! But... is there a boundary that should be set? Questions that should be asked as far as attraction goes for the friend?
I'm back with a thought that crossed my mind over the Holiday. Alright, so a little back story: my younger brother is 21 and one of his good friends from Church and Bible study is struggling with homosexuality. For better words, not struggling but, overcoming it by the grace of God. He strongly desires to obey the Lord and turn from his sin, and so far he claims he is on the right path. I was talking to my brother about it after he left and there was something that I disagreed with, which I'm wondering your opinion about.
My brother was saying that he hangs out with him pretty much all the time (along with other guys and girls, kind of like a group thing) but that sometimes they will hang out (at his house) really late at night, watch movies, do Bible studies, etc. I do know that his friend still gets tempted, by what he was saying to me over the Holiday weekend, and it made me question if my brother was doing the right thing by being with him alone... at night... hanging out? I feel a little um, silly, saying this because I'm not sure if I'm way off thinking this but, knowing that he is gay, couldn't he form an attraction to my brother being with him this much?
My brother and I discussed his beliefs which he believes homosexuality is a sin, but does not believe that he should stop treating him as a human being and just abandon their friendship. I completely agree! But... is there a boundary that should be set? Questions that should be asked as far as attraction goes for the friend?