Ryan&Amber2013
Puritan Board Senior
I've really been thinking about this lately, and it affects a lot of areas of my life:
Should Christians be aggressive, blunt, not letting people walk on them, etc., when dealing in the world? I keep seeing Christians act almost aggressively in the world, and then talk about how it is good, but for some reason my conscience won't let me go there. When I say aggressive, here's what I mean: We were wronged today by another business, so my Christian friend called them up, and in a blunt tone, was just like "can I speak to your manager", and told him we are tired of these things happening, etc. The point was gotten across very directly, and then the other business apologized for the wrong. Now, if it weren't addressed that way, I'm sure the worldly business would have still been okay with wronging us. But as Christians, should we even go that route in order that people will respect us and not walk on us? In the letter to the Hebrews, we are told that their goods were plundered and they were okay with it. Jesus tells us to turn the other cheek, and give the cloak as well. And Paul says "why not just be wronged, but rather, we seek revenge." Now I know we have to draw the line somewhere, but where? I naturally have an easy-going and peaceful personality, so it is hard for me to be blunt and aggressive with people.
Thank you so much for your help.
Should Christians be aggressive, blunt, not letting people walk on them, etc., when dealing in the world? I keep seeing Christians act almost aggressively in the world, and then talk about how it is good, but for some reason my conscience won't let me go there. When I say aggressive, here's what I mean: We were wronged today by another business, so my Christian friend called them up, and in a blunt tone, was just like "can I speak to your manager", and told him we are tired of these things happening, etc. The point was gotten across very directly, and then the other business apologized for the wrong. Now, if it weren't addressed that way, I'm sure the worldly business would have still been okay with wronging us. But as Christians, should we even go that route in order that people will respect us and not walk on us? In the letter to the Hebrews, we are told that their goods were plundered and they were okay with it. Jesus tells us to turn the other cheek, and give the cloak as well. And Paul says "why not just be wronged, but rather, we seek revenge." Now I know we have to draw the line somewhere, but where? I naturally have an easy-going and peaceful personality, so it is hard for me to be blunt and aggressive with people.
Thank you so much for your help.